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40 Codes
See the codes in this list Hidden Money Codes
How earning, charging and keeping money can start to feel personal
For the moment you lower a price before anyone objects, or a good month starts to feel unsafe.
Code Lists
Start with the moment you recognise.
Each list brings together Codes about a familiar difficulty, from money worries to feeling responsible for everyone. Browse the statements and open the ones that feel relevant to you.
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27 Codes
See the codes in this list Rest and Burnout Codes
Why stopping can feel irresponsible even when your body is asking for it
For the moment you sit down, notice one unfinished thing, and get back up.
03
28 Codes
See the codes in this list Visibility and Success Codes
When people start to notice, and the opportunity feels harder to take
For disappearing after a strong month, or making good news sound smaller.
04
28 Codes
See the codes in this list Receiving and Self-Worth Codes
Why it can be hard to accept help or praise, or to feel you've done enough
For the compliment you joke away, or the help you rush to repay before it can land.
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28 Codes
See the codes in this list Selling and Business Codes
When a price, an offer or a growth decision starts to feel personal
For deleting the higher price, or waiting for a client to guess what you want them to buy.
06
28 Codes
See the codes in this list Procrastination and Avoidance Codes
What the delay may be protecting you from
For researching one more option, or waiting until the decision becomes urgent.
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28 Codes
See the codes in this list People-Pleasing Codes
Why another person's comfort can start to feel like your job
For saying yes before you have checked, or softening a boundary so nobody is disappointed.
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26 Codes
See the codes in this list Relationship and Attachment Codes
When closeness, distance or reassurance starts to feel like a rule
For pulling back as a relationship deepens, or waiting to ask until the support is no longer useful.
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27 Codes
See the codes in this list Control and Safety Codes
Why certainty and preparation can start to feel essential
For checking again after the numbers already match, or taking a task back from someone else.
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26 Codes
See the codes in this list Family Rules You Still Obey
When an old family rule is still running, long after the situation changed
For making a win smaller at home, or treating an old family role as a permanent contract.